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birdietrait · 1 year ago

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i’m so excited to make my dishes for christmas dinner <33

#birdie rambles #i love our little tradition #i’ve said this already i think but. i’m making a 60s themed charcuterie board #and ramen !#cooking really stresses me out but this year is pretty easy #i made kebabs last year #and the year before i made chicken tikka masala !

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cautionwetfloor-png · 7 days ago

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not to step where i dont belong but why do i see shippers and saiki aroace truthers beefing all the time ... guys :( .. guys PLEASE .. WE CAN HAVE BOTH. I WANTS BOTH CAKES.

#as a saiki aroace truther myself its impossible to deny his relationship with Kokomi #like theres SOMETHING there #they are CLOSE #besties or dating guys its anyones guess #saiki to me is def aroace but that doesnt mean he isnt close with people. he loves his friends. sees them as family.#i just think his perception of romance is Different #this also goes for most other ships with him too #a lot of that stuff gets lost in our traditional views of romance tbh even though that complexity makes it so so interesting #idk i think his like. apathy. is so key to him #a core trait hes trained into himself thatll take time to break down. let himself be more emotional. in his own way.#i want that to be in my damn romance !!!#PLEASEE #anyways i lost the plot a little bit #guys we can have ships and aroace people !!#two cakes !! two cakes !!#will admit tho i havent finished the show yet cus ive been Scared. ik ill be devistated when i finish watching so im putting it off #for the record i am on season 2. in the middle of it #how he uses romance as a tool actually is kinda supporting this. he just doesnt view it as the same as others. THAT IS INTERESTING TO ME MA #I LOVE IT BRO #anyways snzzzz #saiki k #saiki no psi nan

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bunisher · 6 months ago

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might be the aro in me but i think one of the reasons i don’t ship mattfoggy is because i enjoy the idea of platonic intimacy and friendship without romance. i enjoy them as best friends, because their friendship is not any less than romantic love or needs to be. especially for characters like them, i think it’s important that they have friendships that are not inherently romantic. matt, because he has severe abandonment trauma and avoidant attachment, where all of his romances have ended in some form of tragedy. he has trouble feeling comfortable with people, he feels like he has to perform in many aspects, and does not with foggy, at least not anymore. trust is a hard earned thing with him, but it’s not just about trusting with being a hero, but trusting to be himself. in regards to foggy, because he also has his own issues regarding family and not feeling accepted. he needs that friend who provides the motivation, validation, and feeling of being good enough just for being him. his insecurities often come from being underestimated, being awkward, not fitting in, and with matt he can just be. they’re able to have a relationship with each other that has rupture and repair, knowing eventually after time it’s them against conflict and not them against each other. they set the standard for each other in how romantic relationships are. they provide that safe place for love that doesn’t have the weight of being someone’s everything or partner. they’re already partners! they’re best friends. i personally am a little in love with all of my friends, and i am utterly devoted to them. i will be affectionate and supportive and loving and i am not dating them. so yeah i see how stuff could be read romantic, i understand why people enjoy the ship, i get it, i do. but it’s more powerful to me when it’s not. romance is not the end all be all and that’s why i am obsessed with their friendship without it being this stepping stone for romance or there being no other explanation.

#or maybe they’re in a QPR without it being labeled as such. that may be my new hc #i may even enjoy the hc that they did try to date for awhile and it wasn’t for them #but that’s also because i hate the idea that heteronormativity has that ppl cannot be friends with their exes #i’m also getting more into relationship anarchy because i think the focus on romance in our societies isn’t great #people irl and characters in fiction shouldn’t /need/ a romantic relationship to be fulfilled #it’s also why i don’t write my ships as super traditional with romance lmao #like no they aren’t living together. no they’re not getting married. no they’re not having a kid #their relationship does not adhere to all of these societal standards and expectations but it’s their’s and it’s real #they just enjoy each other for whatever time they have and that’s okay. they deserve that. they deserve that little break #they deserve to be able to rest and relax and no it’s not perfect but they feel understood and comfortable and it’s enough #it’s not full of pressure and this idea of scarcity. it’s because they genuinely enjoy being around each other #they’re their own people. whole and complete without each other. and then they find love and joy and comfort in each other #and it’s so special to them. their lives are constant chaos and they make time for each other bc those moments r precious to them #hell i hardly ever even label it lmfao they’re just doing stuff. they know what it is but if anybody asks it’s 🤷 who knows #and maybe that’s because of my own queerness and how it influences my writing but it’s just something i think i’ve noticed #anyways #matt murdock #foggy nelson #matt and foggy #fanfiction #amatonormativity #shipping #queer platonic ship #comics inspired #nmcu inspired #/rant #bun.txt

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carnivalcarriondiscarded · 1 year ago

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WHAT DO YOU MEAN FANTASY AU HOME FINDS WALLY A LOVER AND THAT ITS COMPLICATED?????

AM I SNIFFING SOME LORE????

OK LISTEN YES AND NO YES AND NO it's not so cut and dry!

most if not all of my decisions in au-crafting stems from the source, my understanding of it, and my interpretations. so warlock!Wally & patron!Home's relationship is how i view their relationship in ~canon~(albeit slightly more intense due to the change in situation). in short: devoted, codependent, intimate, a little strange, and unable to be labeled

so i wouldn't say that Home looks at Wally with outright/explicit romantic feelings, because it's more complicated than that. plus i'm an aro Wally truther. i actually have a ramble post queued up about exactly this so i won't say anything more on the matter rn

#they're weird about each other and lets leave it at that!#home does love wally. so fucking much #enough that it goes beyond 'platonic' but it isn't really romantic-#they've got their own shit going on!#ancient demon & the puppet it inhabits!!!#cause i doubt home really has a sense of 'traditional relationships' that can be found in our society #they're Out Of Touch!#and therefore can't be influenced by / subscribe to our views & relationships with... well! relationships!#they can be called Partners i suppose!#that's a word with a wide range of interpretation which fits #coworkers? accomplices? business partners? lovers? friends? who knows!#neither of them care to figure it out. they're simply wally & home <3 #rambles from the bog #wh fantasy au #aha its funny... in the source material wally lives in home...#but in this au home lives in wally.... a little trade there!#but it works! this way wally can feel home's intentions and feelings (when home wants to share)#and theres a comfort in them staying together at all times...#wally & home have known each other for much much longer than they've known the rest of the neighborhood

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ahopefulbromantic · 1 month ago

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I just realized the most tragic thing - that I cannot gush about 31st October being Dziady / Forefathers' Eve because it's a Polish thing and none of my mutuals know what it is and no really good translation of the dramatic works exists to have them read it :(((

It's like a traditional Polish Halloween and nowadays it's mainly known from Adam Mickiewicz's (he's to Poland what Shakespeare is to England) 4-part drama centered around it. It follows a tortured poet (my blorbo, I love him) during the time Poland was partitioned and erased from the maps, its people oppressed but always fighting back. It is one of the most important and culturally significant Polish works ever created. And it's got, like so many themes, so many themes you guys. It's one of my favorite works ever one of my all-time dreams is to play Konrad, a protag from part 3.

So if anyone does know it or is interested in finding out more please please please message me or drop an ask I'd love to infodump!!!

#Come to the Forefather's Eve! We got:#DARK EVERYWHERE SILENT EVERYWHERE WHAT WILL HAPPEN? WHAT WILL HAPPEN???#hello i came to you to ask for Church's approval of our Christian-flavored spiritual seances and it's a national tradition so you gotta #today's youth has it too easy they cannot enter Heaven like that at least give them a yucky mustard seed #SHE HAS A FLOWERCROWN ON HER HEAD AND A GREEN WEED IN HER HAND AND BEFORE HER RUNS A LITTLE LAMB AND ABOVE HER FLIES A BUTTERFLY #*mama Imelda from Coco voice* a living boy in the land of the dead?!#romantic love evolving into (!!!) platonic love which is portrayed as better of the two (!!!) <3 #Konrad <3 just. Konrad ily. the sad poet #can i call it the cell block tango? i'll call it the cell block tango #the og vampires!! everyone say thank you Slavs for giving you your favorite Halloween monsters!#milliyon TM #Mama Mary rescuing a feral blorbo by not letting him say the Ts word while blaspheming #Poland becoming the Jesus Christ of nations!!! (look it up it's true)#if i had a nickel for every villain struck down by lightning as God's punishment in Polish Romantic literature i'd have two nickels #why can't we find the cute boy i wasn't interested in before but now kinda am? cause you're using his DEAD NAME MARYNA!#so first part is Dziady 2 and the second part is Dziady 4 and the third part is Dziady 3 and as for Dziady 1 it was never finished so we #don't know where it falls chronologically and also there's the Pilgrim poem which is like a sequel to Part 3 and ther #and many many MANY more. it's so good you guys #dziady #adam mickiewicz #gustaw #konrad #wielka improwizacja #mała improwizacja #upiór #vampires #Polish literature #xix century Romanticism #forefathers' eve #🇵🇱

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jabeur · 7 months ago

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ONE WORD TO DESCRIBE SONNY according to his teammates 🤍

for rahul @lee-kangin 💛💙

happy f o u r years of friendship rahul mio caro!!! i think i've said it all in my answer to your ask yesterday, but i just... love you so much and am so so so grateful to have met you and become your friend and to be able to call you my best friend! you're the most supportive, kindest, funniest, most talented, hard working, brilliant, sweetest, smartest person and it's always a pleasure and a fun time and so easy to talk with you. about anything, really. i feel like we've been through so much together, and i hope we're gonna be by each other's side for a lot more milestones, joys, (hopefully few) struggles, successes, spurs matches, interests and everything! you make my days better, you make the world a better, more fun place to live in. i will always be in your corner cheering you on and sending you cursed gifs and silly thoughts. love you, caro!! 🫶💛💙

#son heungmin #son heung min #tottenham hotspur #spurs #tottenham #rahul #nico gifs #everyone can reblog of course just. ignore the sappiness under the read more i guess dksdsncx #but yeah i hope you like this caro! it's nothing much but i wanted to make it bc 1) i felt like it and always love making sets for you!!#2) i didn't make anything last year i'm p sure. yeah it was bc of back pain so fair but! getting back on track with our little tradition!#again i love youuuu soooo much!!! have a good day (THREAT. SPURS..........LOOK AT ME)

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perilegs · 12 days ago

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i need to learn to bake something new as everyone at work already knows i'm bringing them some carrot cake on friday....

#as some of u may have heard several times this month or any time the number 22 is mentioned its my bday on friday #so im baking something to bring to work #and i can bake more than just carrot cake #i think ive brought brownies to work more often than carrot cake. and ive also dabbled in chocolate chip oat cookies #and mokkapalat.#and yet #i saw my boss today and she jokingly was like ''haha i guess we'll be getting some carrot cake on our big planning meeting on friday''#which. hold on just to preface this i actually like my boss and she has my best interests in mind and shes v nice.#anyways i didnt even tell her id be baking smh. i mean i always bake something for work when theres a special occassion but still #and howd she guess it was carrot cake. ok probably bc thats my fave but still #i know i have a complaining tone in here but i think its funny and silly #i know i'm a predictable person but sometimes it manifests in weird ways #i did not know my carrot cake baking was THAT predictable #oh. i was thinking of going to the liquor store on fri bc its a tradition of mine and they have a new #cant remember if it was white or red but anyways some type of new seasonal flavor of wine glögg #i think regular glögg is superior but man can you imagine a red wine glögg with carrot cake #cozy spices...#especially since my carrot cake recipe is very winter-y as it has cinnamon and clove in it #i usually love lighting candles and getting cozy on the sofa as soon as the days get short #but i havent done that yet this year #can u imagine. little lights and candles on. red wine glögg and carrot cake. sitting on the sofa under a blanket.#watching something on the tv.#would love to read but its not ideal in candlelight #i usually like having a big light on bc i like to see but it's nice being in a dimly lit room when its dark anyways #leevi talks

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bmpmp3 · 7 months ago

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and another thing about vocal synth fans: we will always find some adult male voicebank to turn into a funny little clown for our amusement. some guy to communally bully in our talkloids, the miserable straightman to the shenanigans, the sad little freak punchline to our jokes. it happened to kaito. it happened to gakupo. it happened genbu. it even happened a bit to kevin (although he seems to have looped around somehow). and it will happen to you too, frimomen. it will happen to you too.